Relationships Sexual Battery
Mark asks…
What is the difference between sexual battery,sexual assault,and rape?
What is the difference between sexual battery,sexual assault,and rape? If someone were to pull down my pants and he/she doesn’t go any further? What if that person was joking? What would the prison term be for each one?
I wasn’t raped! No one forced me to have sex!
treasures123 answers:
Sexual battery is unlawful physical contact, for example if someone were to touch when you wouldn’t want to be touched. This is not harmful touching unlike sexual assault which may involve some possible violence but this isn’t anything like rape where it is forcing of sexual intercourse.
Thomas asks…
Is it possible to to clear a sexual battery on record in Cali?
I just discovered a predator website and have some concern for my childern. Is there anyway a predator can some how some way clear if his conviction is only sexual battery?
treasures123 answers:
It can be expunged from the persons record but it depends on whether it was charged and if the person was convicted of a felony sexual battery or a Misdemeanor sexual battery, they can both be expunged but they require different processes.{}
William asks…
What exactly does aggravated sexual battery mean?
I recently found out that one of the project managers at my job is a registered sex offender (OMG) and his conviction is aggravated sexual battery, so what exactly does that mean??
treasures123 answers:
Aggravated sexual battery is unlawful sexual contact with a victim by the defendant accompanied by any of the following circumstances:
• Force or coercion is used to accomplish the act and the defendant is armed with a weapon or any item used or fashioned in a manner to lead the victim reasonably to believe it to be a weapon;
• The defendant causes bodily injury to the victim;
• The defendant is aided or abetted by one (1) or more other persons; and
(A) Force or coercion is used to accomplish the act; or
(B) The defendant knows or has reason to know that the victim is mentally defective, mentally incapacitated or physically helpless; or
• The victim is less than thirteen (13) years of age.
Susan asks…
What does a DA have to prove to convict you of misdemeanor sexual battery?
What exactly does a DA have to prove in order to get a conviction of misdemenor sexual battery? And they have to prove it to so there is reasonable doubt correct?
(if you are curious to the charge one of my previous questions discusses that). I have a spotless record. will that be taken into account?
If you have legal backround i would really appreciate your advice. Thank you in advance
treasures123 answers:
They have to prove two things. First, that a person was touched for the purpose of sexual arousal, gratification, or abuse. Second, that the complainant is a victim. Either by statue (because of age, relationship, or disability) or by force, coercion, or incapacitation.
They have to prove it “beyond a reasonable doubt.”
Your prior record is taken into account at sentencing, not as evidence of guilt or innocence. (Unless you have a history of convictions for similar crimes.)
Conviction of a sex offense will affect the rest of your life. Get an attorney.
James asks…
what will be the punishment for sexual battery?
If a person is found guilty for sexual battery, what will happens?
in florida
nobody is telling me approx. how many years?
treasures123 answers:
Depends. Depends upon the age of the perpetrator, the age of the victim, whether it is statutory or forceful, if forceful what type and how much force was used, whether or not a weapon was involved, what type of weapon was involved (a gun penalties are higher), whether the rape was committed in the commission of another crime, the prior record of the perpetrator etc.
It also depends upon the judge. Some give maximum, some give minimum depending upon the impression the perpetrator makes on them.
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Relationships Kissing Tips
Carol asks…
How can I get him to kiss me plus kissing tips?
So my boyfriend hugs me and hold my hand but he won’t kiss me. I think part of the reason is that his friends are always around, and the other part is that neither of us have ever kissed anyone before. I don’t wanna tell him to do it or kiss him first. Also kissing tips would be nice. Any advice? Like how could I get him alone to kiss me.
treasures123 answers:
Have him come to your house to get alone and if you have parents in the way just say your going for a walk and go somewhere like a park. After a while of flirty hints he should get it. And as for the tips i cant help you there. Kissing comes natural… You either good or bad. And don’t worry about it because its his first time too.
Susan asks…
What are some good kissing tips for girls?
I’m 90% sure I’m going to need some kissing tips in a few hours. I’ve kissed different guys but very simply, pecks and stuff like that but tonight I want more with this guy. It sounds stupid but…how exactly do I make out with a guy? Or at least kiss him more intensely? The more details, the better! Thanks!
treasures123 answers:
Kiss him full.
When you first go in to kiss him, put the crack between your two lips on his upper lip, with a small peck, and then his lower lip, the whole time with your hand on the side of his face.
Next put your lips squarely in the middle of his, and your arms behind his head. Don’t grasp his head, or even touch his hair with your hands.
Turn your head to a slight angle and move your lips. After that, things should come pretty naturally.
Ken asks…
KISSING tips?
my ex bf told my friend that i was a “boring kisser”..
anyone have any tips to be a better kisser?
thanks <33
btw. only reply if you have an answer.
treasures123 answers:
Your friend told you that ?? Mayb she is jealouse …anyway here some tips hope they help u dear ..
Great Breath – This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.
Moist Lips – You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don’t wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey
Positioning – Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly
Close Eyes – Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Open Lips – Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner’s lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner’s. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
And don’t just leave kisses to the lips.
Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids.
This can be very seductive and romantic.
Robert asks…
KIssing tips?
I want to improve my kissing skills. I am going on a date on friday and I want to impress him, i’m not sure if it would be okay to make out on a 2nd date. Tell me some info please!
treasures123 answers:
Well, for starters, you DO NOT want to make out on the second date, however, a few kisses (altering the style of each) will do the trick…
You haven’t kissed him yet, and the first kiss is key, so don’t make is trashy, or sloppy ( ie. A make-out session/ a lot of tongue and spit) unless of course that’s what kind of impression you want to leave him with…
So, here we go step- by- step…
1. When he leans in to kiss you -open your mouth slightly,
(Just enough to fit one of your fingers in) and aim to kiss his bottom lip.
2. When he goes in for another kiss, lean in and open your mouth a little more (about twice as much as before) and stick the tip of your tongue out to lick his bottom lip as you kiss, then pull away gently.
3.Lean in and kiss him but this time keep your mouth closed…
Even though you may want to keep kissing him, let that be the end of it…
Keep him wanting more…
Make a fist and open it slightly (enough to fit your pointer finger in) and practice kissing on the opening of your hand, to see if you can get the feel for it, before the big moment!
Every guy I’ve kissed said I was a GREAT kisser, and this is my “first kiss” technique so I hope it works its magic for you too….
Good luck!
Mark asks…
What are some really good kissing tips?
me and my bf are probably gonna kiss next week on our third date. yesterday was our second date, and it was so awkward because he was asking me if i wanted to kiss, and i was like ok, but thenn we spent like 10 minutes straight talking about whether we should kiss or not..ahh! and it will be both of our first kisses. also hes like really nervous soo, what should i do?? and also what are some amazing kissing tips?? haha thanks!
treasures123 answers:
Well instead of the normal french kiss – suck his tongue instead and that will make his sex hormones rise really fast,its an incredible feeling…
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Relationships Kissing Not In A Relationship
Chris asks…
Why does one very rarly see a whiteman and a blackwoman have a relationship or kissing in films or TV series.
I know it sounds strange, But you see many times a blackman have a realtionship/boyfriend and kissing a white woman on TV or Movie screen,( I dont object to that) But very rarly vice versa! Why is that? (For the PC brigade,this is NOT a recist Question)
treasures123 answers:
I think America still lives in the 50s sometimes. I really do. A lot of people still think white should stay with whites and blacks should stay with blacks. You would be surprised at how many people since 9/11 think blacks are scum all over again. Its just what a taste requires. Gotta remember who your audience is for. Example, the show Boy Meets World.. Shawn dated Angelea and the reason it was okay to bring that into the show is because they were trying to show teens its okay to date other people with different skin colors. But adults might take it differently.
Robert asks…
Im confused, what do you think?
I am an 18 year old guy and I have been going out with a girl (17) for 6 months now and we really love each other and I want to be with her forever. Recently I realized that I am bi. I have had gay sex several years ago with my best friend and really enjoyed it but he was straight and it wasn’t a romantic kissing relationship, it was just sex. I have been thinking I want to try dating a guy and having a romantic relationship and kiss him but I couldn’t cheat on my girlfriend. Just yesterday we broke up because she said she started falling for her ex. This really hurt me but she said she still loved me and wanted to take a break. I said I didn’t believe in breaks because its like a free pass to cheat on your partner for a week or two and then go back to normal which is dumb. (Didn’t say all of that though) i was sad at first but realized now I can try dating a guy. Well now she is saying she still loves me and even called me hun in a text (my flirty name she called me) and then said sorry in that same text. If it was an accident wouldn’t she have just erased that part instead of sending it? She has been saying she sorta regrets breaking up but its for the best and she seems to keep flirting with me. I’m confused if she wants to get back together or not. I really do love her and want to be with her but I want to try being with a guy too. So if she asks to get back together what should I say? Thanks I know its long!
treasures123 answers:
Well, follow your heart..that’s all I can really say. You seem like you really love her and I understand since I have a girlfriend whom I truly love so dearly and would never want to part, I believe you should talk about it with her?..does she know your bisexual? Maybe she’ll let you try it with a guy?
Daniel asks…
How can I accept/forget about my girlfriend past? is there is hope with time?
I ve been dating this amazing girl for 3 months and a half but i knw her nd liked her since 3 years ago….and i can honestly say she is the love of my life, our time together is wonderful, so romantic and we are so compatible together, we think alike, share the same dreams, want the same things in life……we both think we re soulmates!
Everything was more than perfect until someday i was ‘stupidly’ curious during a conversation about da past to know more about her past sexual experiences, i knw she only ever dated one guy, the rest was just phone/holding hand/kissing relationships which i dnt mind….but she told me that with that guy she never had sex but she tried everything else and hinted at trying oral sex with him!! :s
that information about her past got me deeply angry and irritated for a couple of days nw, im trying to get past it and enjoy our perfect relationship but there are time when i feel good with her and other times i feel so angryy even though i knw its in the past, but i had this perfect image for her tht was too good for humans, plus i shud mention we have never even slept together or had any form of sexual contact…we love each other so purely….oh and im still a sex virgin too but i had been given head in the past too, so we shud be even, why cant i push past this?? is it maybe a matter of time?
(i guess in the back of my mind, i was trying to prove that she is a total virgin and havent tried anything sexual with her only serious ex boyfriend, but the answer was pretty shocking to me, and sometimes i cant get her picture giving him a blowjob or him giving her out of my head and it drives me veryy angryy)
is there hope for me? its only been 2 days since i ve known, im getting slightly better with my anger issues but im not fully recovered yet to our original perfect state, the effect of the image in my mind is somehow decreasing but will it ever go away completely, is there is a chance of that happeneing with time?
i really love her so much and i can never leave her, espically cause of something she did in her past and my past is exactly the same if not worse…..i rly wish i cud get over it 100%, any help from guys or girls experienced in that issue is much much appreciated…thanks for ur time 
treasures123 answers:
It’s because you feel sexually inferior. Once you start doing those things with her, you’ll realize you’re doing it better because she sticks with you. Ask yourself what’s more important, her past or YOUR future together. Her former relationships were stepping stones which needed to be made because she has found you. If she’s only been with one man, that isn’t bad at all. One day, you’ll do much more with her.
James asks…
Why is it that the first part of a relationship the kissing is the best ” The French Kissing”?
We lived together for over a year and the relationship is great, the passionate kissing that’s almost better than what’s to come next. We’ve been married a month and the passionate kissing is gone! Now it’s “Honey I’m Home” and then he taps you on the lips with his thinking that RIGHT THERE MADE MY DAY! I gave up a relationship that my best friend and the most exciting man that I ever kissed is now off hands because I’m getting married and the one thing that I love about this man is that he’s so honest and upright almost perfect in every way that he oners my marriage! I’ve known him for 2 yrs and he’s been hurt so bad that he’ll never commit to a relationship again., and I choose marriage and stability and safe in a relationship, “TAKEN CARE OF”, I guess every women gets to that point where she thinks that she’s not getting younger. So I gave up exciting and wanting so bad it hurts sometimes. So the ? is, Why does the passionate kissing stop?
treasures123 answers:
The passion is not there because I don’t think that you are truly in-love with this man. I think that you are in love with your best friend. And until you look at your feelings for him you will never love anyone.
William asks…
When is it usually (on average) accepteable to begin French Kissing in a relationship (for young Adults)?
I am curious to know when the average person considers it acceptable to French Kiss someone you been going out with for some time. I understand every relationship is different and every situation calls for different reasoning. But nonetheless I would like to know. Yes we have been kissing for a while now and pretty consistent, but I do not want to take it to the next step and go to fast or make her uncomfortable.
-Thanks!
treasures123 answers:
When the heat of the passion reaches an uncontrolable level it will probably just happen naturally but till then just try gently licking on her bottom lip a little during kissing and if she likes it she will follow suit.
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